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3:48am September 18, 2014

Ten things that our children will never get to expierence:

Man those were the good old days, I’d do anything to have those days back, days of ignorance & bliss.

10:58am September 15, 2014
It’s not the hands that summon us, its desire.

It’s not the hands that summon us, its desire.

6:37pm September 13, 2014
Nevermore.

Nevermore.

6:33pm September 13, 2014

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4:43pm September 6, 2014

“Life is just a dream on its way to death.”

— The Crow: City of Angels
2:09am September 6, 2014

get-dressed-get-blessed:

WHEN U TRYNA TAKE A PILL AND IT TOUCHES YA TOUNGE AND U TASTE IT

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I felt this way earlier when I popped dat xanax

2:06am September 6, 2014
Out of body beauty.

Out of body beauty.

12:38am September 6, 2014
I’ve spent my whole life in Chicago; born & raised, only have left the city twice. Now that there is nothing left here for me I want to go away & start off some where new. Everyone I loved/cared for is gone, the memories are like the plague (good&bad), & my family barely knows I exist nor does my own mother want me around & worst of all grandma lost her mind. 
Chicago has the highest taxes in the U.S. & one of the highest unemployment rates, rents are super high & college tuition is through the roof, not to mention the intense gas & cigarette prices. 

I just don’t think that there is anything left for me here at home. I’m going to start saving up to move to Florida.

I’ve spent my whole life in Chicago; born & raised, only have left the city twice. Now that there is nothing left here for me I want to go away & start off some where new. Everyone I loved/cared for is gone, the memories are like the plague (good&bad), & my family barely knows I exist nor does my own mother want me around & worst of all grandma lost her mind.
Chicago has the highest taxes in the U.S. & one of the highest unemployment rates, rents are super high & college tuition is through the roof, not to mention the intense gas & cigarette prices.

I just don’t think that there is anything left for me here at home. I’m going to start saving up to move to Florida.

12:24am September 6, 2014
orijinaru:

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9:57am September 5, 2014

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”

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Bell Hooks (via hqlines)

I read this book “Men Need Love To” by Bell Hooks & I’ve always thought this about men. Through my relationships with men who have had poor connections with their mothers, this information proves to be quite true, but there is another way they can go which is to treat women as objects because the lack of love from the mother, they never learned how to properly love a women. To be with a man who has “mommy issues” can be extremely exhausting & requires a lot of not only patience but true love as well.
This isn’t just something that happens to males but females too; this is why I stress the point that being a single parent isn’t what’s best for children, they need the gentle love of a mother to teach them kindness, nurture, compassionate & understanding & they need the love of a father to teach how to be treated, respect, & how to be ambitious. I believe that children need balance & stability in order for them to properly devolp emotionally & mentally, which can only come from having both parents present in their life.
From growing up in a single parent home I say this from expierence & have made these conclusions over the years; these are just my views on parenting & love from the parents.